Should Christians befriend unbelievers?

Episode 44

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Below is a blog post from the episode

Embracing the Unbeliever: A Call to Christian Friendship and the Great Commission

Introduction

In today’s fast-paced world, where the digital footprint of ‘friendships’ often outweighs the depth of real, human connections, we, as followers of Christ, are faced with a significant challenge and a profound opportunity. How do we navigate friendships with nonbelievers in a way that is authentic, life-giving, and ultimately leads them closer to Jesus? Drawing insights from the lively discussion between Drew and Tim on the “Eyes on Jesus” podcast, Episode 44, titled “Befriending the Unbeliever,” this blog post aims to delve into the heart of Christian friendship, its real-world complexities, and the importance of embodying the Great Commission in our daily lives.

The Challenge of Growth and Identity

Both Drew and Tim open the conversation by sharing the exciting, yet challenging, growth their churches are experiencing. They underline the importance of sustainable growth that preserves the identity of the congregation and aligns with God’s vision. This pursuit of growth isn’t limited to numbers but to a deeper, more engaged community of believers. However, as these communities grow and evolve, the presence and role of nonbelievers among us come to the forefront of the discussion.

The Heart of the Matter: Engaging with Nonbelievers

The essence of engaging with nonbelievers isn’t just evangelism for the sake of conversion but fostering genuine relationships where love, respect, and faith can flourish. Drew posits that these friendships are critical not only because they are mandated by the Great Commission but because they provide a reflective surface for our faith and an opportunity to welcome differing perspectives. The conversations underscore that befriending nonbelievers shouldn’t be seen as a project but as a privilege to share life and witness to the transformative power of the Gospel through our actions, words, and relationships.

Practical Friendship: Living the Gospel

Drawing on personal stories and scriptural references, the hosts of the podcast discuss the nuance needed when engaging with nonbelievers. Tim emphasizes the importance of being a genuine friend first, suggesting that our lives should bear witness to the Gospel that we believe in. A sentiment he echoes with a clarion call to ensure these friendships do not lead us away from our faith but instead, challenge us to grow deeper in Christ. This balance requires discernment, humility, and a reliance on the Holy Spirit.

Moreover, the discussions bring to light the erroneous interpretations of scripture that justify sinful behaviors in the name of befriending nonbelievers. The clear distinction is made that our call to authenticity and love does not equate to compromising our values or diluting our faith.

A Call to Intentional Prayer and Action

Possibly the most poignant part of the dialogue is the emphasis on prayer. Both speakers reaffirm the power of praying for our friends who do not yet know Jesus, highlighting stories of transformation born from faithful, fervent prayer. This isn’t about ticking off a spiritual to-do list but about embodying the heart of Jesus, who intercedes for us and calls us to do likewise for others.

Conclusion: The Priority of The Great Commission

As the episode winds down, the call to action is clear and convicting. Drew challenges listeners to consider who in their lives is “close to you, but far from God” and to take practical steps toward building those relationships with empathy, prayer, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. This blog post echoes that challenge, inviting readers to reassess their friendships through the lens of the Great Commission. Let us be intentional in our relationships, courageous in our conversations, and relentless in our prayers, knowing that our journey with nonbelievers isn’t just about crossing a spiritual finish line but about walking together in the transformative and redeeming love of Christ.